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“A Fair Exchange”
As God’s fellow workers we urge you not to receive God’s grace in vain. For he says, “In the time of my favor I heard you, and in the day of salvation I helped you.” I tell you, now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation.
We put no stumbling block in anyone’s path, so that our ministry will not be discredited. Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way; in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors; known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.
We have spoken freely to you, Corinthians, and opened wide our hearts to you. We are not withholding our affection from you, but you are withholding yours from us. As a fair exchange -- I speak as to my children -- open wide your hearts also.
-- 2 Corinthians 6:1-13
May the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts be acceptable in your sight, O Lord our Rock and our Redeemer. Amen.
I suspect a pastor and a church member would read and respond to this text from different perspectives.
Most pastors would read this and feel at least some solidarity with Paul and his yearning to connect, heart to heart, with this congregation. He wants them to take the Gospel so seriously that they will act on it immediately: “now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation.” He also is clearly feeling a bit exasperated, almost to the point of being manipulative. Look what we’ve been through for you! We’ve worked hard, practiced what we preached, been misunderstood, lost sleep, given up everything -- but so what? We have nothing, but we have everything, including you. We’ve opened our hearts, held nothing back, been both blessed and hurt -- now isn’t it only fair that you do the same?
If you haven’t read the letters to the Corinthian church for a while, you might like to know that it is clear that this congregation had a lot of issues and presented great challenges to their pastors. The Corinthians were, at the time, one of the first highly diverse, multi-cultural churches, made up of what you might might call baby Christians, spiritual rookies, many of them formerly enculturated pagans. They did not struggle with the idea that Christ loved them, but they did have a very hard time turning theory into practice. So their congregation was rife with gossip, factions, insensitivity to others, arguments, and general worldliness. Thank God modern churches are never like that. : )
While I was at Annual Conference last week, I led a small prayer and discussion group. One of our Scriptures was from 2 Corinthians. I invited someone to volunteer to read the passage, and a pastor raised his hand. By way of introduction he said, with a knowing smile, “This is from 2 Corinthians, Paul’s second run at the Corinthian church.”
It’s likely most pastors who have spent any time shepherding human flocks can relate. It’s a challenging calling. What starts out as a dream to preach the gospel to willing, open hearts gets a quick reality check once we start actually living with a congregation. Generally the joys outweigh the frustrations. Clergy may often quip, “There’s nothing wrong with churches, except they are full of people.” Including pastors, who are human, too, as you can see in Paul’s pleading with the Corinthians to find the heart of the matter -- open hearts, that is.
This is, I think, what Jesus wants the most. He can do anything, except force us to love and accept him. Everything he did, awesome as it is, is for one reason: to persuade us to open our hearts to him. Loving one another as he loved us steers us toward one another, with the same hope.
So I think this is a good time for us all to be thankful to God for calling us together, and to be thinking of other clergy and congregations. There is a lot of pain in our extended fellowship this year. Some are moving, or without a church to serve; some are staying this week in our Conference. Some in both categories are glad, and some are not.
Congregations are going through the same emotional time. And there probably isn’t 100 percent agreement in any church anywhere about how well suited their pastor is to serve them.
The point I’d like to make, from the pulpit perspective, is that relationships between pastors and their flocks are remarkably similar to many human connections. It’s going to be work, forever and a day. But what makes the work worthwhile is keeping in mind and heart what we are all about, and to keep learning what it means to love one another as Christ loved us. With this focus, we can all enjoy God’s pleasure.
As I have been returned to you for another year, I believe God is not finished with us, quite yet. I look forward to a year of getting closer to you, growing in love, and discovering where and how God is calling us to be in mission and ministry together. I will, with God’s help, keep my heart open to all of you, and hope, in fair exchange, you will do the same for me and one another.
Please join me in prayer:
Eternal God, strengthen and sustain us in our ministries together. Give us patience, courage, and wisdom so to care for one another and challenge one another that together we may follow Jesus Christ, living together in love, and offering our gifts and talents in your service; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. |